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bittersweet election elation

Sit down…this is a long one.

It was a beautiful, clear day in Los Angeles on November 4th, 2008. We’d had some rain, so the sky was bright blue with magnificent, white, fluffy clouds that make you want to ride a magic carpet up there. Here is the photo I took right outside my house…

Beautiful, right?

election day in los angeles

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I walked around the corner and waited for a mere 30 minutes to cast my votes. As I walked away from my polling place, hopeful and eager, I got a little choked up at the thought of casting my vote for a candidate that I actually believe in. Ever since I first voted I’ve simply voted for the lesser of two mediocre evils and I feel so proud to have been able to choose someone who is shattering my generation’s rampant apathy. (Actually, I might have voted for Bill Clinton as an incumbent. I have a vague memory of filling out my first ballot as an absentee California voter in my sorority’s dining room. Kirsten, could this be true?) In any case, this is the first election where I was really informed and had opinions based on my own beliefs and ideals. I felt the weather was perfect for the kind of day it turned out to be. Yes, my guy won and it was sweet!

The bitter turn took place at about 10pm after teaching my last class of the day. I turned on NPR only to find that Proposition 8 was winning. I was surprised. Everyone I know, almost, was voting NO. When I arrived to a computer I immediately checked in on the county by county results. It was true…most of my dear state was Green, including my home county of Los Angeles. Let me restate that. My HOME counties up North (San Francisco and Contra Costa) were Yellow. My current county was Green. Because many votes had not yet been counted, I ended the evening hoping that I would wake up and the margin would flip, but, alas, it remained 52% Yes on Prop 8. In California!? *sigh*

On the evening of November 5th, at about 8:45 we heard some faint yelling?, chanting?, PROTESTING! We figured out that is was the Prop 8 rally moving East on Sunset Blvd. As they drew closer and closer to RJ’s house, we took off running down the street to join them. The demonstration was peaceful, except for the loud chanting of “What do we want? EQUAL RIGHTS. When do we want it? NOW!”. We marched around Hollywood for about 2 hours before RJ and I returned home at about 11pm. When we got home and turned on the news, the reporters were trying very hard to spin the protest as violent, but for the record, I was standing about 20 feet from the “violence” and it was what I would call non-violence. One idiot did decide it was a good idea to jump on top of a police car, so of course, he was arrested, but I do not call that violence. We all actually sat down in the street in front of the police blockade to show that we came in peace. Just before I left the demonstration, a second group of enthusiastic protesters joined us at the intersection of Hollywood & Highland. Suddenly the group doubled in size and we celebrated the solidarity. Here is my amateur video of the two groups coming together. I’m no filmmaker, but it will give you an idea:


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And here are some photos of the protest in action…

Have you ever seen me with such a stern face? I was a little fired up!
what do we want? equal rights! when do we want it? now.

I am certain that not everyone who reads this post (I know you’re here, reading silently) will agree with my position here, but this cause is very near to my heart because I have numerous loved ones that this proposition discriminates against.

Now, several days after the results of the election I am happy and sad and frustrated and hopeful. Hence, it was a bittersweet election day in my home state of California.

We took one awesome step towards change, and now we have several more to go. Hooray for Obama! Good luck, dear Sir, you’ve inherited a major mess, but I believe in you and this country with all my heart…
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overnight vacation

I still have no camera. I tried to buy one yesterday, but of course, there was this really big holiday that prevented me from being a consumer. But I had another great weekend!

On Saturday, RJ and I went down to Manhattan Beach for an overnight ‘getaway’. We spent the afternoon wandering around on the beach before we sat outside at the Cantina and drank a whole pitcher of Margaritas. {insert imaginary picture of us toasting our drinks here}

After our merry margaritas we got dressed to go out and went to see R’s brother Casey play in his classic rock cover band. They were playing at a funky little dive bar and they sure rocked it out. It was really fun to see Casey in his element, having a really great time. {insert imaginary picture of Casey headbanging here}

The next morning we woke up and walked right outside our hotel to look at the beach and have some breakfast. After breakfast, we took off our shoes and walked down to the water for a few minutes. We both decided we could live in one of these beach communities someday when we’re rich and don’t have to commute up to the big city. {insert imaginary romantic picture of the two of us on the beach with the morning waves behind us}

weekend update in words

Well, since I am still too cheap to buy a new camera I don’t have a any pretty pictures to post of my weekend adventures. (I know, it’s silly, because I know I will use it a lot, but it’s a “big” purchase which means I will visit the store about 3 times before I actually put down the credit card. I’ve been two times now, so…)

But it was a solid weekend.

Saturday I rested. Like, a lot. Went over to R’s for breakfast and then fell asleep on the couch for awhile while he set up his new wireless printer. Then I went to see R’s hair girl for a much needed haircut. And I have never before had a better haircut! (see, right now would be the perfect time for a picture. wouldn’t it?). I love my hair. And I don’t say that very often. I mean I’ve been satisfied with my hair before, but right now I. Love. My. Hair. She didn’t even ask me what I wanted, she just ran her fingers through my hair, said it would be fun and then worked her wonder. Yeehaw – I have a style! Who knew that all I had to do was go see my boyfriend’s hair stylist? Go figure.

Then last night R and I watch another couple of episodes of Lost, the first season. No – neither of us ever got into it, but now we are and we’re watching it for free on abc.com! I love it, he likes it enough…(I think he likes it more than he’d admit)

Then today, I had an audition. (Yes). I auditioned for Miranda in The Tempest opposite Olympia Dukakis’ Prospera. Yes, Propera with an A. She is very nice and fun to audition with. She coached me while she was acting with me – it was awesome! Fingers crossed, but certainly no expectations…

And then, the best part of the day was having lunch with my friends Mila, from New York, and Amanda, just up from The OC. When we get together it’s like no time has passed. I heart them so much and wish Mila lived closer and Amanda and I saw each other more.

And that is my fabulous weekend in words instead of pictures. Ok, fine, I’ll make that 3rd trip to the store and get a camera, ok!?

hooray for change!

recycleIn my condo building we do not have those fabulous blue bins in which to put all my glass bottles, aluminum cans, mixed paper, etc, for recycling. This has always caused my crazy, Northern California, recycle-minded self some stress. I hoard all my recyclables in bags around the kitchen and when I am overflowing I take them to the recycle place for my $3.00. And I don’t do it for the $3.00 ~ in fact, if the line is too long I leave with someone who has collected a lot more than me. It’s annoying only because I don’t really have room for a lot of recycling and so it gets cluttered in the little nook by my fridge and so I trip over cans and bottles more often than is necessary.

Finally, my HOA prayers have been answered. Our building has signed up for the *free* recycle program and we now going to have blue bins in the garage…

I am over the moon about this. Like a little more ecstatic than a normal person might be. Every day I come home from work hoping I will find the new blue bins and feel ultra-disappointed when they haven’t arrived yet. So, while I wait I study the list of things I can place in the blue bins upon their arrival so I am a responsible recycle participant!