Category Archives: motherhood

jack: fourteen weeks old

Here is Jack at 14 weeks old…
(May 3, 2012)

fourteen weeks!

I decided to copy my friend Emily’s method for photographing her baby boy (also named Jack) each week. She was originally inspired by my new favorite bloggers, Sherry & John of Young House Love. I was getting less and less happy with the weekly bouncer photos, so I’m totally stealing their entire idea. Now our Jack-boy will have cuter weekly photos and I have a fun creative project. Thank you, Emily and Young House Love!

This week has been all about SLEEP, or, no sleep. Because I am heading back to work soon, we started the process of getting Jack on more of a daily routine. And by routine I simply mean as close to regular nap-eat-play times as we can manage. It has only had a modicum of success, but we’re still trying. We started a routine with the goal of passing the 4-hour mark with Jack’s night time sleep. Some nights are a total sleep disaster, with frequent wakings. Other nights are pretty good. So far, the best night we’ve had is one stretch of 4.5 hours followed by a stretch of 3 hours. This sounds great except that he goes to bed at about 8:00pm, so he woke up at 12:30am and again at 3:30am and then about every 1-2 hours after that. Most often Jack sleeps 8pm-12am, then wakes again somewhere between the hours of 2-2:30, 4-5 & 6-6:30am. Luckily the wakings are getting easier. I nurse him for about 15-30 minutes and then he usually goes right back to sleep without a lot of trouble.

What’s funny about the fact that we feel challenged in the sleep department is that when I looked back over my photos from this week, most of them were of Jack sleeping.

In the carseat, in his cradle, in my arms and on my lap…

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I guess I regularly photograph him sleeping because it’s so exciting when he goes down for a long-ish nap (and by long-ish I mean over 30 minutes). Also because I think he looks like a little cherub when he sleeps.

The best sleep progress we made this week was getting him to sleep in his cradle instead of the swing. Hooray! In fact, we got so confident that he’ll sleep in his cradle that we moved the swing out of our room. Double hooray! Remember, we live in a one bedroom, so he sleeps in our room. He still likes a tight swaddle over just a diaper so he doesn’t overheat. He is also a more successful sleeper when some light white noise is playing. This helps to drown out the random and unpredictable condo building noises that often startle him awake. BUT, he’s learning to fall asleep on his own instead of being nursed, rocked or bounced to sleep. Triple hooray!

I am pleased to say that Jack is not always being soothed to sleep. We also have fun playing with him and watching him develop new skills, like grasping. Here he his grasping and playing with a little maraca…

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He also likes to reach for, bat at and grab his activity mat hang toys! It’s fun to watch his determination for achieving a grip on his animals and his delight when he succeeds.

I am starting back at work on Tuesday and Jack will enjoy the company of his Grandma Jodie on Mondays and Wednesdays and his Grandpa Larry on Tuesdays. Thank goodness for family support – we are so blessed.

And finally, Jack’s cheeks…

chubby cheeks

They’re just so pinch-able and kissable, aren’t they?
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jack: thirteen weeks old

Here is Jack at 13 weeks old…
(April 26, 2012)

13 weeks!

It’s hard to believe that our baby has blessed us with his presence for 3 months! I know people say the kiddos grow up fast and it’s true.

Jack-boy attended his first birthday party this week. It was for an older woman, too – she turned 1. We enjoyed ourselves in the park and though it was overcast, I figured out that Jack needs a sun hat. He got the slightest sunburn. It was really more like a little sun kiss, but he’s so fair I will not take him out without his sun hat again. Here we are in the park together…

a birthday party in the park

Another first was Jack’s first airplane! He was amazing going and returning with barely a peep…

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first flight

While the flights with Jack were fun, the circumstances for our travel were not. We went North to attend my Uncle Paul’s memorial – he will be very sorely missed. The upside to our trip was that Jack finally got to meet his Uncle Robert. Hooray!

This week we’ve been enjoying Jack’s delightful dancing. He likes to chill on his activity mat and dance to the tunes on Pandora, especially the disco station. Click right here to see him getting his boogie on to Michael Jackson. (We think it’s cute).

Some things about Jack at 13 weeks:
Jack is still only sleeping a four hour stretch at night. I’m so ready for at least six. Come on, Jack!
Jack does not appreciate tummy time at all. He lasts about 1 minute max. Any ideas besides the “interest him with a toy”? He doesn’t care about toys much right now and we can’t seem to coax him with a mirror or our faces. He does like to fly around the house on his tummy via my arm, but don’t put him on the boppy, or the floor.
Jack loves music! No surprise since he listened to so much of it in the womb during my classes.

We think Jack has soulful eyes when he’s in a serious mood…

jack's serious, soulful side

His eyes are also starting to change from the newborn blue. We think they will be end up being hazel, like mine.
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the best of both worlds.

After a lot of soul-searching and family discussion, I’ve decided to return to work part-time. Since my request to return to my position 80% time was not granted by my job, I chose to take the “step down” and work in the office 3 days per week. I will also teach a few classes per week as supplement.

I look forward to seeing how my new role might actually allow me to spend more time doing the things I love about my job. And of course, I am thrilled to be able to be present for Jack more often than returning to work 5 days would have offered.

I am also happy that the extra personal days per week may actually allow me the space and time to pursue some things that I’ve had on the back burner for too long.

Hey, when life gives you lemons, make some lemonade, right?

I hope that this schedule will allow me to experience the best of both worlds: Mommyhood and Working Woman.
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jack: twelve weeks old

Here is Jack at 12 weeks old…
(April 19, 2012)

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Jack’s little double chin is getting bigger! In fact, this photo makes him look downright chubby. Check it out…

sleeping through mommy & me class

As you can see, we went to a Mommy & Me class. Unfortunately, Jack slept through the first half and nursed during the second half.

Jack is now spending more time awake and is becoming such a happy, expressive baby boy! We love interacting with him and watching his personality reveal itself.

This week R and I went on a date for the first time since Jack was born! First, we enjoyed a wine flight…

first post baby date

Then we went to the movies (Hunger Games = Book is waaaaaaay better) and dinner. Being out together without baby-boy was so lovely!

Meanwhile, Jack enjoyed hanging out at his grandparents’ house…

jack's favorite babysitter: grandma jodie hangin' at gma & gpa's house

For his final 12 week photo, check out Jack’s left hand. He’s flippin’ the bird…

unintentional flip off.

Unintentionally, of course!
(hee hee, I am mature)
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